Melissa Benson, 70, of Lanesboro


Melissa Benson

Melissa Marie (Donehower) Benson, 70, of Lanesboro, died on peacefully Monday, March 4, 2019, surrounded by her loving family following a brave battle with pancreatic cancer.

She was born in Saint Paul, the daughter of Dr. Clifford and Rosemary (Galvin) Donehower.

She grew up in West St. Paul and graduated from Sibley High School in 1966.

She attended Hamline University in St. Paul, where she met the love of her life and her husband of 50 years, Duane Dean Benson.

They were married at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in West St. Paul on June 22, 1968, before moving to California when her husband was drafted to the National Football League by the Oakland Raiders.

After their move to the west coast, she completed her degree in English in 1970 at California State University in Hayward.

She created homes for her family in Pleasanton, Calif., Atlanta and Houston, Texas, during her husband’s professional football career.

In the mid-1970s, she and her husband fell in love with the rolling hills of southeastern Minnesota and bought a farm in Lanesboro. Their daughter Brooke was born in 1971 and their son Jess was born in 1978. She was a loving mother, grandmother, sister and aunt. She was a cherished friend to many, and she was known for her optimism, kindness and sense of humor. Her family and her faith were at the center of her life.

She joyfully engaged in the Lanesboro community in many ways for over four decades. She was an active member of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church and often served as a Eucharistic minister, was a member of the Altar Society and was a chair of the annual St. Patrick’s Day dinner. She expressed her community spirit through many acts of kindness and volunteerism for multiple organizations including the American Cancer Society, Art in the Park, 4-H, Meals on Wheels, the Lanesboro Public Library and many others.

She was an avid reader and writer throughout her life, and she frequently wrote letters and sent cards to her children, grandchildren, family members and friends. She found great joy in her garden and loved to cook unforgettable meals for those she loved.

She was known for her sense of fun and the many friendships she formed through Bible study, bridge, bowling, friendship club and through the kind and loving eyes through which she saw the world.

She is survived by her children and, Brooke Worden of St. Paul and Jess (Janet) Benson of Burnsville; grandchildren, Emma and Lauren Worden and Nora and Dane Benson; sister, Nancy Allen of Lenexa, Kan.; and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Duane Benson.

A memorial service for her was held on Friday, March 8, at St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Lanesboro.

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